When I talk to most of my friends, they say the
same thing- I just don't feel like an adult and I agree!
It's hard but I'm actually starting to feel like I'm figuring my life out.
One of the things that has been plaguing me
recently is why the heck did I wait so long after graduating from college to
start acting like an adult? I understand that everyone goes through their “post
college” years but sometimes I feel like I almost waited too long. It sounds
silly but when I go on Facebook and everyone is getting married and having kids
and buying houses I get the urge to yell “Wait for me!! I want that too!” I
feel like after 2 years I'm finally ready to start thinking and acting like an
adult.
I
recently started saving for a house which is exciting!! I get butterflies when
I look at my “house” fund and see if slowly going up but at the same time, I
want it to go faster!! I think that’s one of the biggest areas where I’ve grown
up. In college, I would go out every night and go shopping all the time and not
worry about the fact that I didn’t have a ton of money because I could put it
on my parent’s credit card—maybe not the best decision! I’m in the process now of paying them
back but it is definitely taking me extra long to get started on saving for a
house since I’m paying them almost $1000 every month.
Spending thousands and thousands of dollars on going out in college was probably a bad choice but it sure was fun...
In my office, we recently started doing Dave
Ramsey’s series. For those of you who aren’t familiar with Dave Ramsey- he’s
awesome. Check him out here- www.daveramsey.com He’s all about paying off
debt and saving.
Since the only debt I have now is to my parents,
I am working hard to budget and save. I give them 2/3 of what I don’t spend and
put the rest in a savings account. But I have to tell you- it’s really hard not
to overspend sometimes! It’s Thanksgiving Eve this Wednesday and like an idiot,
I already spent all of my “going out” money for the month already. I know that in the long run, the
$20 - $30 that I would spend probably won’t make that much of a difference but
I thought 2 things when that ran through my mind:
1. $20-$30 THIS time wouldn’t be a big difference
but when I think that way EVERY time, it’ll definitely add up.
2. I’d rather put that towards my house and see
my savings goal thermometer grow (even if it’s only a tiny bit).
So while all of my friends are out partying on
Wednesday, I’ll be here, probably curled up in bed watching a movie- which to
be honest, doesn’t sound that bad to me.
